Reflecting on the loss of empathy for a parent in family therapy sessions

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Taylor, Mark. 2024. Reflecting on the loss of empathy for a parent in family therapy sessions. Ethics and Social Welfare, 18(1), pp. 88-93. ISSN 1749-6535 [Article]

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Reflecting teams play a significant role in family therapy; they broaden perspectives on how family dynamics or problems can be understood. However, what happens when a reflector does not feel compassionate towards a particular family member? There is a risk of biased reflections: families can pick up negative signals, putting the therapeutic relationship at risk. In this paper, I explore how I was supported to explore my lack of compassion for Dad ‘John’. It was only after reaching out to an experienced supervisor who undertook an ‘internalised other’ interview with me – where I played the role of Dad – did my compassion increase. From an ethics of care perspective, I suggest that social professionals need to explore ways to increase empathy and compassion for clients they dislike. If they do not, they are open to valid criticism that they are behaving unethically as professionals. Therefore, there is a need to address deficits in empathy and compassion to sustain ethical social work practices.

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https://doi.org/10.1080/17496535.2024.2310869