Bare Fridges and Burnt Tortillas: Conflictual Moments in the Making of Coupledom

Khanijou, Ratna; Cappellini, Benedetta and Hosany, Sameer. 2025. Bare Fridges and Burnt Tortillas: Conflictual Moments in the Making of Coupledom. Sociology, ISSN 0038-0385 [Article] (In Press)

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Abstract or Description

This article investigates how conflicts emerge and unfold among newly cohabiting couples during the daily practices of making and sharing dinner. Adopting a ‘moments approach’, findings from an ethnographic study involving 12 couples reveal how conflictual moments emerge from clashes between individuals’ dispositions regarding responsibilities (who does what), standards (what is appropriate) and techniques (how things are done). Clashes are reflected upon through a process of zooming in and zooming out where conflicting gendered, classed and cultural dispositions emerge. At the conceptual level, conflictual moments are identified as epistemic and affective scenarios revealing broader structural and socio-cultural inequalities permeating domestic life of heterosexual couples.

Item Type:

Article

Identification Number (DOI):

https://doi.org/10.1177/00380385251331388

Keywords:

cohabiting couples, conflicts, conflictual moments, dormant dispositions, meal practices

Departments, Centres and Research Units:

Institute of Management Studies

Dates:

DateEvent
July 2023Submitted
10 February 2025Accepted
10 May 2025Published Online

Item ID:

38819

Date Deposited:

14 May 2025 14:17

Last Modified:

14 May 2025 14:17

Peer Reviewed:

Yes, this version has been peer-reviewed.

URI:

https://research.gold.ac.uk/id/eprint/38819

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